Umm, okay ...let's see where this is going...
Whew. Okay, she lost me for a minute but regained my attention with the turban and flapper number.
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Solange on Fashion Risks
I mean, look at some of my fashion choices back in the day. You
know how people say, ‘Who let her walk out of the house that way?” or “She
needs more people!”… Oh believe me, I had the people, and they tried, but I
resisted the arrest! Life is supposed to be about experimenting and going for
it, especially in your twenties. So I have to just go for it, and laugh later.
Solange on Natural Hair
I’m actually really trying to navigate my feelings on the entire
hair issue and its tough doing that publicly. On one hand, I can’t ignore the
fact that I have done things that have put attention on my hair with going on
Oprah and being a part of Carol’s Daughter.
I was asked to go on Oprah on
an episode that was dedicated to Black Hair, and to speak about why I cut my
hair. I honestly thought, “Number one, it’s Oprah, and who wouldn’t want to go
on Oprah and meet her?!?! She’s amazing! But also, I thought if I addressed it
then, then maybe I wouldn’t have to on that level again.
I spoke about how I felt like my hair was holding me back in some
ways from fully utilizing my life, in terms of the time, energy and money I was
spending. I also remember very clearly saying that this was the phase I am in
at the time and that if I wanted to wear a weave down to my calves–when and if
that time came–I very much so would. I still feel that way now. I realize for
some people that this was a big turning point in terms of how they saw me.
I’m actually no longer a part of Carol’s Daughter, but throughout
my entire time working with them, I was constantly fighting for the right
message to be heard. The message that, the way we wear our hair is a personal
choice, there’s no right or wrong way; one way doesn’t make us more
intelligent, or more superficial, and everyone makes that choice for very
different reasons.
I am completely with Solo
on respecting that the way that we wear our hair is a personal choice that
should be respected. I hate that there is divisiveness (even if it’s only
perceived) among black women that wear relaxers/straight hair and
those that wear their natural kinks. It seems so culturally regressive.
Thoughts?



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